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    Sundays 9:00am- 3:00pm

    Next Steps would be to book online with the therapist you choose or email Tiffany at [email protected] 

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    How We Can Help

    There’s no denying that life often presents us with our fair share of challenges, usually in the form of sudden change. These life transitions, even the positive ones, can throw us into a tailspin and leave us feeling stressed, confused, and vulnerable. But with the right tools and mindset, you have the power to not only overcome any adversity but also transform into a more authentic and confident version of yourself. Let us help in couples or individual therapy. 

    Therapists for Emotional or Physical Affairs

    If you are in a relationship that has suffered through the hardship of an emotional or physical affair we can help. When a relationship is in distress, we can help dig into why this has happened. Leah and Irena are highly experienced to manage the ups and downs in the office room after figuring out a plan on how to rebuild trust communication and more depending on the couple. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..
    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem

    Therapists for LGBTQ+

    If you are struggling with your sexual or gender identity, in a same-sex relationship in need of repair or are needing gender-affirming and compassionate care, we can help. Anthony, Robyne or Irena are highly experienced in working with the LGBTQI+ community and can help you navigate life from an affirming and supportive view. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.
    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem
    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!

    Therapist for Polygamy Relationships

    If you are in a polygamous relationship that has struggles with communication, autonomy, defined roles and responsibilities, jealousy and overcoming conflict, we can help. We can help discover why this has happened and how to work through it. Anthony is highly experienced in the nuances of polygamous relationships and can help develop a plan specific to the needs of the relationship. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.

    Therapist for Open Relationships

    An open marriage or relationship can be a great way to stay committed to one primary partner emotionally while having the freedom to sleep with others. If you are thinking about taking the next steps to figuring this out with a partner Anthony can be a great fit to help set boundaries to make sure everyone is happy. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.

    Therapist for Breaking Up or On Again/ Off Again Relationships

    If you’re not sure if you need to end a relationship once and for all please see Leah to help with this major life decision. Together, you and Leah can talk about gaslighting, pros and cons and really get a third party view on what is clearly happening. You can bring your partner or come alone, your choice. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..

    Therapists for Pre-Marital Counseling

    Are you engaged or thinking about getting engaged and are finding you and your partner aren’t on the same page, or just need to start with a healthy foundation prior to marriage? Robyne and Anthony both help couples by looking at the dynamics of the relationship that may impact the marriage. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.
    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!

    Counseling for New Parents

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by new parenthood adventures or adding a new baby to your life? Leah or Laura are practical and can help support you in doing the very best for your new baby without harming your relationship. Learn ways to help each other out with teamwork and encourage. Help is close- feel free to bring your baby to session, stroller or carrier and all! Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..

    Therapists for Separation

    Are you considering separation or have already separated? Therapy can allow for the space and time needed to process this change. Our therapists will help foster a space where open communication, honest and kindness are at the forefront and come up with a plan to make it happen. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!
    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.

    Therapists for Addiction to Technology

    Has addiction to your social media, internet, cell phone, computer, TV or gaming device become problematic to the extent that where it is impacting your professional and personal life and relationships? Let Laura, Irena or Anthony help with interventions designed to help your normalize your use of tech-related mediums. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem
    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.

    EMDR for Trauma Survivors

    Are you looking to process and heal from specific traumatic and distressing events or upsetting memories? Through EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), Irena can help you alleviate the stress associated with those events. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem

    Therapist for Blended families

    Shared custody? Sibling rivalry? Conflict with stepchildren? If any of these sound familiar, these are some of the struggles of blended families. Robyne is here to help you and equip you with skills to address misunderstanding and conflicts to create a dynamic where each individual’s feelings are supported. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!

    Therapists for Divorce

    Divorce is tough. If you are a couple thinking about divorce or in the process of divorce, our therapists Leah, Robyne and Irena are here to help you cope and offer support with the challenges of divorce both emotional and practical so that each party can move on in a healthy way. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!
    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..
    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem

    Therapists for Intimacy and Connection

    Lost the “spark” that once set your relationship afire? Do you desire to have meaningful, deep connections with your partner? Our skilled therapists Leah and Anthony provide work for couples struggling with intimacy and connection by looking at the underlying causes and will develop a plan to work and strengthen both the physical and emotional connection. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..
    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.

    Therapists for Communication Skills

    Are you finding that your interpersonal and/or romantic relationships are suffering from lack of communication or poor communication? Communication is the foundation of every relationship! Both Irena and Robyne are skilled in providing individuals, couples and families with therapy needed to source out communication issues and providing an effective toolkit filled with healthy ways to foster effective, respectful and loving communication. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem
    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!

    Therapist for Money Conflict in Relationships

    Are you tried of arguing about money with your partner? Leah can help figure out the root cause of your money issues and help resolve these so that you can focus on what matters in your life. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..

    Services We Provide

    Therapy By Choice has qualified professionals who can help couples or individuals with the following specialities:

    Emotional or Physical Cheating

    If are in a relationship that has suffered through the hardship of an emotional or physical affair we can help. When a relationship is in distress, we can help dig into why this has happened. Leah and Irena are highly experienced to manage the ups and downs in the office room after figuring out a plan on how to rebuild trust communication and more depending on the couple. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment.

    Breaking Up or On Again/ Off Again Relationships

    If you’re not sure if you need to end a relationship once and for all please see Leah to help with this major life decision. Together, you and Leah can talk about gaslighting, pros and cons and really get a third party view on what is clearly happening. You can bring your partner or come alone, your choice. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/sleah-elvitsky/

    LGBTQ+

    If you are struggling with your sexual or gender identity, in a same-sex relationship in need of repair or are needing gender-affirming and compassionate care, we can help. Anthony, Robyne or Irena are highly experienced in working with the LGBTQI+ community and can help you navigate life from an affirming and supportive view. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/irena-shwartzman-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/robyne-vance-amft/

    Polygamy Relationships

    Polygamy Relationships If you are in a polygamous relationship that has struggles with communication, autonomy, defined roles and responsibilities, jealousy and overcoming conflict, we can help. We can help discover why this has happened and how to work through it. Anthony is highly experienced in the nuances of polygamous relationships and can help develop a plan specific to the needs of the relationship. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/

    Open Relationship

    An open marriage or relationship can be a great way to stay committed to one primary partner emotionally while having the freedom to sleep with others. If you are thinking about taking the next steps to figuring this out with a partner Anthony can be a great fit to help set boundaries to make sure everyone is happy. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/

    Pre-Marital Counseling

    Are you engaged or thinking about getting engaged and are finding you and your partner aren’t on the same page, or just need to start with a healthy foundation prior to marriage? Robyne and Anthony both help couples by looking at the dynamics of the relationship that may impact the marriage. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/laura-berchtold-life-coach-for-individuals-families/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/robyne-vance-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/

    New Parents

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by new parenthood adventures or adding a new baby to your life? Leah or Laura are practical and can help support you in doing the very best for your new baby without harming your relationship. Learn ways to help each other out with teamwork and encourage. Help is close- feel free to bring your baby to session, stroller or carrier and all! Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/sleah-elvitsky/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/laura-berchtold-life-coach-for-individuals-families/

    Separation

    Are you considering separation or have already separated? Therapy can allow for the space and time needed to process this change. Our therapists will help foster a space where open communication, honest and kindness are at the forefront and come up with a plan to make it happen. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/robyne-vance-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/

    Addiction to Technology

    Has addiction to your social media, internet, cell phone, computer, TV or gaming device become problematic to the extent that where it is impacting your professional and personal life and relationships? Let Laura, Irena or Anthony help with interventions designed to help your normalize your use of tech-related mediums. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/laura-berchtold-life-coach-for-individuals-families/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/irena-shwartzman-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/

    Blended families

    Shared custody? Sibling rivalry? Conflict with stepchildren? If any of these sound familiar, these are some of the struggles of blended families. Robyne is here to help you and equip you with skills to address misunderstanding and conflicts to create a dynamic where each individual's feelings are supported. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/robyne-vance-amft/

    Divorce

    Divorce is tough. If you are a couple thinking about divorce or in the process of divorce, our therapists Leah, Robyne and Irena are here to help you cope and offer support with the challenges of divorce both emotional and practical so that each party can move on in a healthy way. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/sleah-elvitsky/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/irena-shwartzman-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/robyne-vance-amft/

    EMDR for Trauma Survivors

    Are you looking to process and heal from specific traumatic and distressing events or upsetting memories? Through EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), Irena can help you alleviate the stress associated with those events. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/irena-shwartzman-amft/

    Intimacy and Connection

    Lost the "spark" that once set your relationship afire? Do you desire to have meaningful, deep connections with your partner? Our skilled therapists Leah and Anthony provide work for couples struggling with intimacy and connection by looking at the underlying causes and will develop a plan to work and strengthen both the physical and emotional connection. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/sleah-elvitsky/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/anthony-deamant-amft/

    Communication Skills

    Are you finding that your interpersonal and/or romantic relationships are suffering from lack of communication or poor communication? Communication is the foundation of every relationship! Both Irena and Robyne are skilled in providing individuals, couples and families with therapy needed to source out communication issues and providing an effective toolkit filled with healthy ways to foster effective, respectful and loving communication. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/irena-shwartzman-amft/ https://therapybychoice.com/staff/robyne-vance-amft/

    Adolescent Coaching

    If you or a close relative need support navigating growing up in a busy life Laura can certainly help! She can teach your teen how to manage and balance school, sports and family life as well as other life skills. Come in with disorganized thoughts and leave feeling empowered and motivated to life your best. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/laura-berchtold-life-coach-for-individuals-families/

    Money Conflict in Relationships

    Are you tried of arguing about money with your partner? Leah can help figure out the root cause of your money issues and help resolve these so that you can focus on what matters in your life. Request a free 15 minute consult by clicking the link below or emailing [email protected] and our Care Coordinator Tiffany Evans can help set up an appointment. https://therapybychoice.com/staff/sleah-elvitsky/

    Meet Our Team

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    Robyne Vance, AMFT

    I enjoying and have experience serving communities where gender affirming care, and inclusivity to those in the BIPOC and LGBTQ+ communities is essential. If you are an individual or couple who needs help navigating through hard transitions then I can help you!
    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    Anthony Deamant, AMFT

    My passion is geared towards working with individuals and couples who are navigating through life transitions such as alternative lifestyles, break-ups, infidelity or the nuances and intricacies of poly-relationships.
    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem
    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    Leah Elvitsky, LMFT

    I've had the pleasure of working in the Mental Health field for the last 12+ years. I love working with couples and helping them learn skills to better their relationships and reduce conflict by building a stronger solid foundation..

    If you are looking to:

    – Start enjoying life again
    – Achieve your goals
    – And live authentically

     

    …Then let’s chat!

     

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    “Life is a matter of choices, and every choice you make makes you”
    -John C. Maxwell

    Life isn’t always easy. Sometimes, even the strongest people amongst us need a little bit of help to work through some of life’s more challenging problems. Everyone has battles to fight and hurdles to overcome at some point. Whether you struggle with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, or any other issue, you should know that there is hope for a better tomorrow.

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