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    Sex Therapy Is Transforming Relationships and Improving Confidence for Individuals in San Jose, CA

    Are you stuck in a sexless marriage? Do you and your partner have mismatched sexual desires? Are you having performance issues? Do you not feel emotionally connected anymore? Or maybe you want to spice up your love life, but your partner isn’t interested.

    Sexual health and intimacy are vital components of a fulfilling relationship. If sexual issues are preventing true closeness between you and your partner, you may want to consider sex therapy. At Therapy By Choice in San Jose, California, our team helps individuals and couples enhance their sexual well-being and address challenges through sessions in a comfortable office environment. Whether you’re experiencing intimacy issues, sexual dysfunction, or simply want to deepen your connection, we are here to support you.

    How Does Sex Therapy Work?

    Sex therapy is designed to address a wide range of concerns related to sexual intimacy and satisfaction. A sex therapist will work with their client on:

    • Communication and emotional intimacy
    • Desire discrepancies and mismatched libidos
    • Performance anxiety and erectile dysfunction
    • Orgasmic difficulties and premature ejaculation
    • Sexual trauma and recovery

    Through open and respectful conversations, we help clients understand their needs and desires, fostering a deeper connection with themselves and their partners. From there, we may recommend specific exercises to refocus the couple’s attention and expectations. Specific objectives may include the following:

    • Learning to eliminate and relax distractions
    • Learning to communicate what you’d like in a positive way
    • Learning nonsexual touching techniques
    • Increasing or enhancing sexual stimulation
    • Minimizing pain during intercourse

    Therapy By Choice is dedicated to helping clients achieve their sexual health goals. Our therapists are trained in specialized areas of sex therapy and are passionate about promoting healthy and satisfying intimate relationships. We approach each session with empathy and professionalism, aiming to empower clients to live their most fulfilling lives.

    Our Approach to Sex Therapy

    At Therapy By Choice, we recognize that each person’s experience with sexuality is unique. Our sex therapists employ a variety of therapeutic techniques to suit individual and couple’s needs, including:

    • Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) for changing unhelpful thought patterns
    • Sensate focus exercises to rebuild physical intimacy
    • Psychoeducation to enhance understanding of sexual health
    • EMDR for trauma-related sexual issues

    Our goal is to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where clients can explore and address their concerns, leading to healthier and more satisfying relationships. Our office in San Jose provides a welcoming and confidential space for discussing sensitive topics, and we strive to make every client feel at ease during their sessions. To accommodate busy schedules, we offer flexible appointment times, including early mornings, evenings, and weekends. This ensures that our clients can access the support they need at a time that works best for them.

    Sex Therapy Done Right

    If you’d like to explore sex therapy, turn to Therapy By Choice. Our experienced therapists in San Jose, CA, are here to guide you toward greater understanding and connection with yourself and your partner. Reach out today to schedule an intake appointment!

    Meet Your Sex Therapist

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    Irena Shwartzman, LMFT

    I work with young adults, adults and couples who may be struggling with depression, self-harm, anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, trauma, stress management, attachment struggles, and as well as with self-esteem